Use Your Pain to Create Your Freedom

podcast Aug 25, 2020

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Hey Dethroners!  Today I want to talk about why your painful and uncomfortable emotions are not only necessary but actually crucial in learning to rewire a new mind. And because anything you want to create differently in your life is only possible with a new mind, it is imperative that you know how to use your pain to create your freedom. 

I talk a lot about your Inner Critic’s addictions. These are the demands and needs that your Inner Critic says must be met for you to feel good. You need to make sure no one is disappointed in you. You need to make sure you aren’t judged or rejected. You need to make sure you find a job, or else you’re a loser. You need to make sure you find a relationship so you can feel valued and important. You need to make sure you lose weight or else you are not good enough.  

Now remember, your Inner Critic mind is only focused on the past or the future. So all of those...

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My Dad, the Lake, and My New Mind

podcast Aug 18, 2020

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Hey Dethroners! I want to share an experience I had with my dad a couple of weeks ago, which illustrates what it looks like to operate from a rewired mind. So I will get to that in a few minutes.  I want to say that the first step to rewiring a new mind, is to wake up to the recognition that almost all of the thoughts that we have had for much of our lives, have really been our computer programmed thoughts from our Inner Critic.  

 And when we first wake up to this, it can feel very strange. It’s almost as though you are having an out of body experience because you are stepping outside of your mind and putting all of your thoughts in the palm of your hand and watching them, seeing those thoughts as separate from you, it’s like whoa….. I am not really sure who I am!  

Your Inner Critic feels threatened when you stop listening to it and taking guidance from it.  It will scream louder at...

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How to Remain Peaceful No Matter What - Find Your Strawberries!

podcast Aug 11, 2020

Hey Dethroners.  Today I want to talk about how to sustain a feeling of peace and clarity no matter what circumstances you are facing.  

The work of Dethroning Your Inner Critic is about just that--living a life of peace, joy, and contentment by learning HOW to think, which we are not taught to do. What knocks us out of peace, is what we perceive to be our problems. Now, what you perceive to be a problem- something that is supposed to be or should be different than exactly how it is right now. So to free yourself from all of your inner turmoil, you have to be able to spot what your automatic, Inner Critic mind is demanding.  

Whether that is something about you that should be different, something about someone else that should be different, or some circumstance that should be different, your Inner Critic is triggering very uncomfortable emotional responses when something in your world doesn’t fit the way your Inner Critic says it's supposed to. So when...

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As I Awaken, I Awaken You

podcast Jul 28, 2020

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Hey Dethroners!  I am getting so many messages from so many listeners around the world, about the pain that you are in. I want to talk about the world we are living in right now, filled with so much uncertainty, so much fear, so much social and political injustice, unemployment rising, COVID numbers skyrocketing, how can WE ALL play a part in changing the world we are living in?  How can we all wake up to who we are meant to become? 

With the state of the world right now, we have a powerful opportunity to reflect and refocus on the things that really matter to us. We really have 2 choices. Either we bury our heads and stay stuck in the familiar fear, despair, and helplessness, or we take this time to be the change we want to see in the world. 

I truly believe that we are all on a journey to continue to become who we are really meant to be. I believe that this is a never-ending journey, with no arrival...

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Are You Living in Memory or Inspiration?

podcast Jul 21, 2020

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Hey Dethroners!  Today I want to talk about the difference between living life from your memory and living a life from inspiration. First, let’s talk about what it means to live life from your memory, which is where probably what 90% of people do.  

The work of dethroning your Inner Critic is to dissolve your hidden conditioned computer programs that block you from living the life that you want and attaining your dreams in every area of your life. Essentially, we are learning how to think from an entirely different mind than the one that we have been using throughout our lives. But rewiring a new mind is virtually impossible when we are continuing to drag along pain from our past. 

Most people have no idea that they continue to drag toxic energy and faulty thinking from their past that is tainted by painful memories. They are stuck in suffering over the people that hurt them, or circumstances that should have been...

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The Spiritual Side of Dethroning Your Inner Critic

podcast Jul 14, 2020

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Hey Dethroners!  Today I want to talk about the combination of brain science and spirituality when it comes to doing the work of Dethroning Your Inner Critic.  

First, let’s talk about the brain science. Our brains are hardwired for survival. So the only thing our physical brain really cares about is seeking pleasure and avoiding pain.  And for this reason, your Inner Critic is your default mode of thinking. 

Simply put, it is how you think when you are in survival mode. Your Inner Critic is nothing more than a conditioned set of beliefs beginning in early childhood, that becomes your identity. And because so many parts of our personality are created by how we think, act and feel, our personality is intimately connected to our personal reality.  So the work of dethroning your Inner Critic is about becoming conscious of your unconscious thoughts, which gives you access to consciously thinking new...

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The Best Way to Predict Your Future Is to Create It

podcast Jul 07, 2020

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Hey Dethroners! Today I want to talk about why so many people have such a challenge with creating the future they really want to be living. The bottom line is that almost no one is taught exactly HOW to create it. And without being taught, our automatic minds are in control of our lives. That is like giving your five-year-old the keys to your car!  

In the self-help, coaching and therapy space, there is a lot of talk about “control your thoughts”. And I have said many times that everything starts with a thought. The problem with this idea of “controlling your thoughts” is that most of our thoughts, and we have about 70,000 per day, are rooted in beliefs from our past. 

Your past consists of memories-- all of your memories have an emotion. Why can we remember some things about our past but not others? Because long term memories come from strong emotions.

When you have had a strong emotional...

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Your Step by Step Guide to Rewire a New Mind

podcast Jun 30, 2020

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Hey Dethroners!  I hear from so many of you that you really want your lives to be different and you really want to think from a new mind...but you keep believing what your old mind is saying, and you are struggling with how to do this. 

So here it is--today I am going to talk about exactly what thoughts you need to think to rewire a new mind and design a new life! What is imperative for you to understand is that everything you are living right now is a response to your story. The way you think, feel, your attitude about yourself and your life is all from your story. 

And if you are swallowed by your Inner Critic’s story, you can’t hear your authentic self.  The self that is from within your soul, not your ego. Your ego is where your Inner Critic mind lives. Your authentic self knows that you are worthy beyond measure and that all is well for you right now. There is abundance that is flowing to you,...

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Be the Change You Wish to See in the World

podcast Jun 23, 2020

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Hi Dethroners!  Today I want to talk about how YOU can be part of the change that is occurring in our world.

We are living such a historic moment that is filled with so much pain, but it is also filled with so much possibility. Because we are starting to have real conversations about how pervasive racism is in our culture and how devastating life has been for Black and brown communities. I have been talking with people, listening to podcasts and lectures, and reading a lot so that I can really educate myself about what it is like to be Black in our world. 

I have always known that I am not a racist but I was completely blind to how little I knew about what it is really like to be Black in this society. I am embarrassed that it was not until George Floyd’s death that I donated to the NAACP legal defense and educational fund. His death really woke me up to the idea that I have not been doing enough and really understanding...

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What Does it Look Like to Master Your Mind?

podcast Jun 09, 2020

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Hey Dethroners! I keep hearing from so many of you who are wanting to understand what it really looks like to master your mind so today I am going to talk about it from a biological as well as from an emotional and spiritual perspective. 

Our brain is like a huge biocomputer. And like any complex piece of machinery, If we don’t receive training on how to use it, we just don’t know how to use it to its fullest potential. Our senses and our rational mind don’t tune into the world as it really is. The picture of the world around us is mostly the creation of our pre-programmed distorted memories that we mistake for facts. We don’t realize how much our minds manipulate, change and distort what has actually happened in our lives. 

And most people have no idea that their head is what creates their entire world. I talk a lot about your Inner Critic addictions.  These are the things that your mind says you NEED in...

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